Tried NC....for a day!

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-21-2003
Tried NC....for a day!
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Fri, 10-10-2003 - 10:23am
My H and I are going to start counseling next week. I agreed because I don't want to hurt him anymore. I thought the best thing to do would be to tell MM that I couldn't see him anymore. WRONG! I didn't last a day. I need him to much. He's such a wonderful person that I just can't seem to get by without him. Every morning he leaves me a voicemail and yesterday when I didn't get that "Good morning beautiful" I thought I would just die. I'm just going to do what makes me happy. All he brings to my life it total joy. Looks like I'm sticking around!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 10-10-2003 - 2:11pm
i'm with you secret. i want to do what is right for me, for a change. and MM is what is right for me! i can't imagine NC with MM. that would kill me. he's just left for vacation (7 days!) and i'm a little freaked out. been spending all morning (and now afternoon) on the board, just to be able to talk about him!

i like that you're going to counseling with your H. think about having some separate sessions for just you. if you feel comfortable, let the therapist know about your A. he/she cannot tell your H, it's confidential. just a thought.

take care,

gurl