A trip?

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Registered: 02-12-2009
A trip?
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Thu, 02-12-2009 - 8:12pm

Hi everyone,


I am new here..so hello!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-07-2008
In reply to: mrs_bee_09
Thu, 02-12-2009 - 10:20pm
I had the exact same thing happened to me last Aug. My AP and I had been together for almost 4 years. Never once had an over night then ever. I brought it up every once in a while about how I would like to go somewhere but he never really responded. Then one day asked me to go with him on an over night business trip. Of coursed we started planning 2 months before it happened. Yes that must happen. You must plan and think everything out. We went 6 hours away. I was very nervous about the whole thing to thinking what if he backs out or his W decides to go so and so forth. But he finally just had to tell me to trust him that it would work out and it did. We had the most wonderful time. It was perfect in every way. It was the first time we were able to be out in public doing normal things without having to worry who we would see. So I would plan yes. It will work out and take the moment to have that special trip like I did. It will be worth it.