Trust

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-06-2012
Trust
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Thu, 11-08-2012 - 5:39pm

How much do you trust your AP?  If we are all being honest the relationship is based on untruths, secrecy and lies.  I am beginning to trust my EAP less and wonder if he is lying to me.  In another thread I shared an issue he and I were having and since he has shared emails with me between him and another woman, I am wondering if I can believe the emails.  Maybe I am crazy and thinking too  much.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-18-2008
In reply to: ranetay1
Fri, 11-09-2012 - 8:10am

I gave up trusting APs a long time ago. Being in an A, we're all liars, every one involved. It's part of it. But then I'm in A's for the fun and the escape and not because I'm looking for a new H. I already have one of those, lol

-jana

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-26-2012
In reply to: ranetay1
Fri, 11-09-2012 - 10:12am

I trust him completely.  He's not lied to me yet and everything that he's promised he was going to do, he's done quickly.  He could have strung me along for months and stayed with his W, had her washing his clothes and fixing his meals while they lived as roommates but he didn't.  Until he gives me a reason to not trust him, he has 100% of my trust.

Community Leader
Registered: 09-21-2007
In reply to: ranetay1
Fri, 11-09-2012 - 11:07am

I don't trust AP.  When I am with him, I trust him then, that he will make me feel good and keep me safe and all that good stuff.  Otherwise, nope.  And I am not completely honest either.  It's a two way street.

 

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Community Leader
Registered: 09-21-2007
In reply to: ranetay1
Fri, 11-09-2012 - 11:07am

I don't trust AP.  When I am with him, I trust him then, that he will make me feel good and keep me safe and all that good stuff.  Otherwise, nope.  And I am not completely honest either.  It's a two way street.

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-06-2012
In reply to: ranetay1
Fri, 11-09-2012 - 5:37pm

Exactly, my EAP and I never see one another. I know I should be happy he shared what he shared with me regarding that unfortuante situation but I keep thinking....what is he not sharing with me and did he share any of our conversations with anyone else....