Trying to do the right thing

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-01-2008
Trying to do the right thing
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Fri, 11-14-2008 - 2:10pm
I am going to post here so I don't do something I'm not supposed to and email AP.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-11-2008
Fri, 11-14-2008 - 2:17pm

Hang in there.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-31-2008
Fri, 11-14-2008 - 2:47pm

NO!!!!! DON'T!!!!

Don't call him, don't email him, stir up your feelings, remember something that you never liked about him, remember times when you felt lonely and hurt because of him, remember all the harm this A did to you and to your M!

Stay strong, he does not deserve you!

I am about to change my name to Angry Vivacious Girl, that's how mad I am at this whole stupid A thing, that made me feel so small and insignificant. Every time I start to soften up, I remind myself that my xAP was nothing special. Nothing. Not even that good in bed.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-14-2008
Fri, 11-14-2008 - 3:02pm

I wish I had your strength to make a decision myself, to do what's right and best for your family and for yourself.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-12-2006
Fri, 11-14-2008 - 7:27pm

are you currently happy in your marriage?


iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2007
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 8:20am

"I remind myself that my xAP was nothing special. Nothing. Not even that good in bed."


Yikes!

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-31-2008
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 1:48pm

Hey, I loved the picture:)
I have moments of betraying weakness...my heart starts to ache for him, then I pull myself back together.
NC day #4. The longest we've been in NC was 5 days about 3 months ago, and somehow I think if I will make it over 5 days, it will get easier. I start to miss him, damn it. I broke NC last time..now I think if I would not have done it, I'd be over him by now.
I love him and I hate him, hate this nagging feeling of emptiness inside...but I will make it through!!

(((Hugs)))

Angry Vivacious

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2007
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 8:41pm
Don't forget your anger! Don't soften up!! He left you to go to his wife!