trying to make sense of it all

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trying to make sense of it all
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Fri, 08-07-2009 - 1:29am

Hello,


I'd like to tell my affair story and see what some of your thoughts are for those of you that are not new to an affair.

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Fri, 08-07-2009 - 11:43am

I don't typically have any great advice in these situations. I've never been the OW, nor do I think I could/would. I always knew that I was capable of being the mw and having an affair but I never believed I'd actually do it, yet, here I am.


I think divorce throws a lot of people, just like it's thrown you. It's easier to go through if you have a little honey on the side the way you do (the way I do, too!)


The fact that he's been married 25 years and didn't know he was unhappy is

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Fri, 08-07-2009 - 9:37pm

LOL!

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Fri, 08-07-2009 - 10:40pm
I do hope I didn't come across as judgmental. We really are all in this together, regardless of which partner position we hold.
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Fri, 08-07-2009 - 10:47pm

I didnt think your post judgemental at all.

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Sat, 08-08-2009 - 1:38am
Thanks, sometimes, things get lost in the written word. I re-read my post and it seemed a bit judgemental so wanted to be sure. I have no room to judge! I have already stepped in the big ole pile! LOL