trying to move on

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Registered: 06-01-2010
trying to move on
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Wed, 06-02-2010 - 5:41pm

Hi all,


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Registered: 05-03-2010
Wed, 06-02-2010 - 9:24pm

((((Hugs)))) ali!


Yes, it IS hard!

anotherseyes

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Wed, 06-02-2010 - 10:47pm

Aw, Ali, I'm sorry you are in such pain.

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Registered: 03-29-2010
Thu, 06-03-2010 - 7:00am

We'll try to hold onto your hands so that you don't send that message!!


You made the wise choice in posting here instead.

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Registered: 05-19-2010
Thu, 06-03-2010 - 10:19am
Ah the 'melt' for him! Let me tell you something- your AP loves it when you melt for him and a reason he blows on/off.Jokes apart,
"I am scared that if he contacts me I will get deeper into this affair and I will never be able to get out of it." IF you are emotionally attached,this is bound to happen.
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Registered: 06-01-2010
Thu, 06-03-2010 - 5:27pm

thanks all for your support.


I have just got home from a long day at work which has kept me busy and my mind occupied. Today is his birthday but I have held back from sending him anything. Let him see what it feels like to be ignored lol


I am in a much more positive state of mind today and it is so good to know that there are others going through the same pain who understand. Not that I think it's good we are in these situations!


Had a good talk with a colleague who knows my story and she has helped me look at things differently. Basically she said I need to leave him to sort his own stuff out, and if he loves me then he will be back and if he's not then he was never worth it.

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Registered: 03-29-2010
Thu, 06-03-2010 - 5:34pm
Ali, I'm so glad you're in a more positive frame of mind and so determined!

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Fri, 06-04-2010 - 12:20am

That does sound like good advice your friend gave you.

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Registered: 06-01-2010
Fri, 06-04-2010 - 2:04pm

Thanks all,


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Registered: 03-26-2010
Fri, 06-04-2010 - 2:12pm
Oh, wow, it would be hard not to be a little hopeful after words like that.