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| Thu, 12-18-2003 - 9:26am |
HI thier, just need to ask a Q?
I am not having an affair, but my very best girlfriend is. And I feel I have been put in the middle of this.
I had a horrable fight with her 2 months ago, and I feel so bad and want to fix things with her.
You see she has called me to go out the odd time and then her lover will met us, I do not no this untill he shows up. Her husband and mine, well all of us and our kids have been close for 10 years now.Then 2 months ago I was out of town, My brother was almost killed in a motorbike accident. I am sitting in the hospital very upset so I called my husband just to talk. I got him on his cell phone and he was with my friend at a football game. For some reson I was so mad that I was seeing RED. I no everything she is up to,, he does not no a dam thing. I got in a figth with my husband and then with her on the phone.
Tolled her to go work on her own F#*KING marriage. My husband and I are fine. But my emotions were running so high that day in the hospital I just wanted to here the comfort of my husband, and not hear here voice and about her affiar.
I no she is lonely, and the affiar she is having is making her feel alive again, but I am in a happy marriage. I don't want to be used so she can met up with her lover.
I love her dearly, and miss her friendship, but it also hurts to be around her.
What have I done? How do I fix? I just want to understand?
Anyone who reads this or even answers thank you
Connie
I am not having an affair, but my very best girlfriend is. And I feel I have been put in the middle of this.
I had a horrable fight with her 2 months ago, and I feel so bad and want to fix things with her.
You see she has called me to go out the odd time and then her lover will met us, I do not no this untill he shows up. Her husband and mine, well all of us and our kids have been close for 10 years now.Then 2 months ago I was out of town, My brother was almost killed in a motorbike accident. I am sitting in the hospital very upset so I called my husband just to talk. I got him on his cell phone and he was with my friend at a football game. For some reson I was so mad that I was seeing RED. I no everything she is up to,, he does not no a dam thing. I got in a figth with my husband and then with her on the phone.
Tolled her to go work on her own F#*KING marriage. My husband and I are fine. But my emotions were running so high that day in the hospital I just wanted to here the comfort of my husband, and not hear here voice and about her affiar.
I no she is lonely, and the affiar she is having is making her feel alive again, but I am in a happy marriage. I don't want to be used so she can met up with her lover.
I love her dearly, and miss her friendship, but it also hurts to be around her.
What have I done? How do I fix? I just want to understand?
Anyone who reads this or even answers thank you
Connie

Here is my girlfriend and my husband out drinking and having fun at a football game. it is not rigth for me to flip out but I did,, this is why I need to fix things.