Two Weeks of NC

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Two Weeks of NC
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Tue, 09-09-2003 - 11:56am
Hey girls

I'm on the 2nd day of a two week NC - I know some of you do this all the time- HOW!?

OM is out of town until the 15 and I'm leaving on the beach for a week on on the 13th.

We were together for a little while on Sat. But he had been out of town for 3 days before that.

Just not use to him not being right down the street to run too when thing get tough!!

I know I know - 16 year old school girl crush LOL

ej

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Registered: 09-03-2003
Tue, 09-09-2003 - 12:08pm
All you can do is take it one day at a time. It may sound silly, but sometimes I'll write notes to him. I end up tearing them up and flushing them down a public toilet somewhere, but every now and then I'll save one to give him later. It does help to write...makes me feel like I've actually spoken to him. Haven't done that in a while though -- no longer feel the burning need to talk to him when I'm away. Hopefully that's part of the healing, but it's probably because he's been being a total jerk for the past three weeks and I just don't feel too charitable toward him right now. :-)
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Tue, 09-09-2003 - 5:43pm


=)


Edited 9/19/2003 12:12:30 PM ET by lexylew

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Tue, 09-09-2003 - 5:54pm
I guess I shouldn't say NC - I will be talking to him and e-mail.

I just won't be seeing him in person all this week and all next week.

I have gotten so use to seeing him 3 or 4 times a week - just for a few mins at a time

now I'm going crazy not being able to.

His office is just down the street from mine and we sit on a number of committes together.

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Registered: 07-05-2003
Wed, 09-10-2003 - 1:07am
............O I C.........

to me when u say NC that means NO contact... i misunderstood

=)