Umm...do I detect a little agression?
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Umm...do I detect a little agression?
| Wed, 07-21-2010 - 2:46am |
So I've said before AP appears to have the perfect life--great kids, wonderful wife.
| Wed, 07-21-2010 - 2:46am |
So I've said before AP appears to have the perfect life--great kids, wonderful wife.
Hell yeah!
I must admit I feel slightly good about myself when my AP makes a remark about his partner that shows she is a bit cold (which I think she is) or that he has diminished feelings for her.
BUT- laugh at her? NO. Make fun of her? NO. This is a real woman and as much as I love being with my AP, he is her partner, and I am participating in something that could be incredible shattering for her. By the same token I wont say bad things about my H or allow my AP to. Its just not right.
Having said all that, there is NO way your AP is happy with his W jane- perfect woman that she is- if he is making those sort of comments or even seeing you. But by the same token, AP's lie or embellish about their home environments I think to make theselves appear more neglected than they are.
Either way, his comments about his W are strange. He's definately trying to communicate something there- but I wouldnt laugh at his wife.
Not sure Id tsk tsk him, maybe just ignore it- he'll get the message soon enough that you wont engage in that convo.
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