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Unbelievably hurt
| Fri, 05-01-2009 - 7:53pm |
Hi all,
I wrote earlier how my AP's daughter found texts to him from a 'married woman'.
| Fri, 05-01-2009 - 7:53pm |
Hi all,
I wrote earlier how my AP's daughter found texts to him from a 'married woman'.
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i had forgotten how much we have in common. i'm sorry to see you sad but i'm glad to see you here.
send me a message,
Mrs.
Edited 5/2/2009 10:51 am ET by mrs.smithandjones
Sc... I'm so sorry that you are feeling so sad.
{{{Hugs}}}}
Thank you maystone!
He seems determined not to talk to or see me again.
Good
Sorry to hear about your pain and difficult years in the past.
We all have burdens--that is part of life.
I feel for your AP--the one thing you are trying to hang onto--the family and your daughters CD release for example--well--with the discovery of his texts to you--he now has lost his daughter...as a divorced man one would think it wouldn't have such a devastating impact on his daughter--but the fact remains--it did.
So he already lost what you want to keep.
I am exiting a long term marriage because my A taught me this--you can't have it all, and in the end one must be true to oneself.
I wish you well.
Thank you, eternal.
Your post brings up my deepest fear.
Dear he doesn't hate you or what you have together....love is love and with it comes forgiveness. We are all only human true? Frankly--i wondered why he daughter was
going thru his texts but at this point it is a moot point.
I understand how you feel--we devote ourselves to our families and then we fall in love and what are we to do? For me the decision
rested solely on my refusal to stay with a man i no longer loved...I wont get into what happened along the way but i will say I have no guilt and no regrets about my A or my decision to leave H...another factor in my decision was the fear that the discovery of my affair could affect the relationship
I have with my grown children.... It is hard but this is where I find myself. My entire adult life
I have devoted myself to my family--for me with my children now grown
i feel I can move on and know I have been the best mom i could be.
You must look deep inside and see what is right for you etc--what you can live with.
Dot be so hard on yourself--after all we are only human....be well.
He had a new phone, gave his old phone to his daughter.
Thank you both again.
I have told him the same thing, that he was entitled to his privacy and his own life that he would never think about doing this to her.
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