You opened up that can of worm and you're upset? You mean, you want to have sex with another woman and get your O's while he just stand there and watch? Really??? How selfish is that. How about if he had the same tendencies to want to have sex with another man and want you to just watch while they're doing it, would that be okay to you?
Hey, only you knows you. But if you're the type who tends to get jealous like that then be careful you don't suggest things that should equally give him the opportunity to do the same. Otherwise, it's not fair play and you'll only end up hurt.
My thoughts are that maybe although I don't personally find the topic offensive, I think that there is a section here on ivillage that covers taboo subject matter.
Almost all men have fantasies about being in a FMF threesome. It's fine to talk about fantasies, but if they become reality I think the experience is a whole different thing than people imagine. I think you are not cut out for such a thing and that's FINE, there is nothing wrong with you - your feelings of jealousy are perfectly normal.
I think you should get over being hurt however. Of course he's going to hope for some feelies from two women at once LOL. Like I said, it's a normal fantasy for men. If you tried to have sex with a woman with him just watching, it may not turn out exactly as planned which would only cause trouble between the two of you. I think you should tell him you're not comfortable talking about a threesome anymore and don't think you want to explore that in real life - your hurt feelings show that. Hopefully he'll put the whole thing back into his "fantasy" life and not hope for it to happen for real.
Some would say that I fell from grace... but I didn't.
You opened up that can of worm and you're upset? You mean, you want to have sex with another woman and get your O's while he just stand there and watch? Really??? How selfish is that. How about if he had the same tendencies to want to have sex with another man and want you to just watch while they're doing it, would that be okay to you?
Hey, only you knows you. But if you're the type who tends to get jealous like that then be careful you don't suggest things that should equally give him the opportunity to do the same. Otherwise, it's not fair play and you'll only end up hurt.
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My thoughts are that maybe although I don't personally find the topic offensive, I think that there is a section here on ivillage that covers taboo subject matter.
"Why would he want to be with another woman?"
Almost all men have fantasies about being in a FMF threesome. It's fine to talk about fantasies, but if they become reality I think the experience is a whole different thing than people imagine. I think you are not cut out for such a thing and that's FINE, there is nothing wrong with you - your feelings of jealousy are perfectly normal.
I think you should get over being hurt however. Of course he's going to hope for some feelies from two women at once LOL. Like I said, it's a normal fantasy for men. If you tried to have sex with a woman with him just watching, it may not turn out exactly as planned which would only cause trouble between the two of you. I think you should tell him you're not comfortable talking about a threesome anymore and don't think you want to explore that in real life - your hurt feelings show that. Hopefully he'll put the whole thing back into his "fantasy" life and not hope for it to happen for real.
Some would say that I fell from grace... but I didn't.
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