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| Wed, 03-10-2004 - 12:08pm |
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Edited 11/24/2004 2:09 pm ET ET by buffalobillie
Edited 11/24/2004 2:09 pm ET ET by buffalobillie
| Wed, 03-10-2004 - 12:08pm |
hi buffalobillie and welcome to the board!
if OM is freaked out over almost being caught out, maybe a short period of NC might be in order.
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
Edited 11/24/2004 2:10 pm ET ET by buffalobillie
Hi buffalobillie and welcome,
I am inclined to agree with Gurl... that if your OM is a little freaked about things... then take some time out and let things settle... it may also allow you both to do some very indepth thinking about the whole thing.
I'm a believer that it is possible to keep the marriages together and maintain a wonderful affair on the side... MM and I have been doing it for almost 4 years now... but believe you me... it's not a walk in the park.
MM and I are both married with small children and neither of us is prepared or even wants to walk away from our respective marriages... we are on a level playing field and understand each other and the relationship that we have.
Sweet
Co-Community Leader My
Edited 11/24/2004 2:11 pm ET ET by buffalobillie