unhappy me

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Registered: 05-03-2009
unhappy me
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Sun, 05-03-2009 - 6:28pm

i recently realized that accepting who my husband truly is means accepting who he will never be. I'm not so sure i can live with that. what does one do now?


iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2009
In reply to: cats_me
Sun, 05-03-2009 - 6:33pm
I guess you come to terms with that and learn to live with how things are. Otherwise you can
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2009
In reply to: cats_me
Sun, 05-03-2009 - 6:39pm
we've been married for almost 14yrs. i guess the hardest part is admitting that i knew from the start but thought i could fix him, he's not a bad man just not who i want him to be. at this point i am to afraid to ask him if i am the person he wants me to be.