Unsure and Confused

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Registered: 10-23-2008
Unsure and Confused
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Thu, 10-30-2008 - 5:23pm

Hi!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2007
Thu, 10-30-2008 - 5:54pm

Hi JD - and welcome to the board.


I am going to side with your friend that said to stop calling him.

lightning in my heart

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Registered: 08-08-2008
Thu, 10-30-2008 - 5:56pm

Hi and welcome!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-23-2008
Thu, 10-30-2008 - 8:25pm

I know - in my head -

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Registered: 10-24-2008
Fri, 10-31-2008 - 8:37pm

I have to agree w/ the other posters. Tgr, and trtl give great advise. I am always interested to see their take on things.

Your AP had reservations about the A to begin w/. Most men are so excited to be getting something new that they skeet to soon, so for him not to be able to preform really speaks volumes about his inner conflict. Personally I wouldn't want to be w/ someone that was so torn. If I cared for them then I wouldn't want to see him torment himself about anything that had to do w/ me.

Not to mention things at home AND work have reached Defcon 5 (highest level of security in the US) You better cool believe that his W's antenna are up, and searching for ANYTHING that smells just the slightest bit funny. It seems that this A has caused more trouble than it's worth since you have been together for such a short time, and have little time invested.

If I were you I would cut my ties to him at least temporary. Let everything over there calm down, and for God's sake STOP CALLING HIM. Your gonna get him pinched. Like someone else said if you leave him alone you will still get you your answer either way, it may just take some time to get it. I know how hard it is to wait, but I really don't see any other options for you. If you continue to call him your going to irritate him, and that will only push him away. Give him some air to breath, and some room to move, so that he can make everything on his end OK again. Good Luck.