Update

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-13-2008
Update
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Sat, 11-08-2008 - 2:49pm

Just an update and wondering if I'm normal.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
In reply to: cplove2007
Sat, 11-08-2008 - 3:08pm

Hi cplove,


I hope I respond without sound negative or judgmental.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
In reply to: cplove2007
Sat, 11-08-2008 - 3:22pm

I wouldn't care how much he asked me to be there, I would not go and explain to him my uncomfortableness about going and 'interrupting'...and it will be an


iVillage Member
Registered: 03-13-2008
In reply to: cplove2007
Sat, 11-08-2008 - 3:52pm
I should explain better.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-01-2008
In reply to: cplove2007
Sat, 11-08-2008 - 3:55pm
Will your b/f be going with you?
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-13-2008
In reply to: cplove2007
Sat, 11-08-2008 - 4:00pm
Yes.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-01-2008
In reply to: cplove2007
Sat, 11-08-2008 - 4:13pm

Ok, so that makes things more interesting.

Can you tell him that you can't handle a funeral and ask if you can do something else together instead?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-13-2008
In reply to: cplove2007
Sun, 11-09-2008 - 2:14pm

I really don't feel like I have a choice.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2007
In reply to: cplove2007
Tue, 11-11-2008 - 11:32am

Hi CPLove -


First - I wanted to say how glad I am to read your post - I have been wondering how you are doing - and I am so happy to know that you and BF are still together and going strong.


I have read the replies you have received on here - and honestly - if I didn't know so much of your background story (more than you have ever posted here) - I would probably agree with the camp that says - Don't Go.

lightning in my heart

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
In reply to: cplove2007
Wed, 11-12-2008 - 10:44pm

Hi cplove2007,


I wanted to apologize to you for my reply to your post the other day, after reading cl-tgrbabe's reply, I realized I responded strictly on emotions from my