Update about Me

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Registered: 03-03-2010
Update about Me
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Sat, 05-08-2010 - 3:35am

Well, I'm following the advice of my MAS friends and still taking it really slow with my friend.

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Registered: 03-03-2010
In reply to: andalinka
Sat, 05-08-2010 - 3:38am
And oh yeah, when does it go from an almost A to an A?
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Registered: 03-29-2010
In reply to: andalinka
Sun, 05-09-2010 - 10:00am

I consider an A an A when there is emotional involvement, or when there is communication that is "secret" and not shared with spouses, etc., so yeah you are in an A. It's an A long before any kissing or touching etc. It's a "physical A" when there is physical contact like you described, it doesn't have to involve full IC.

You sound like you're on top of the world! I remember - it's a nice feeling.

I would caution you about getting a job in the same place. Mixing work with an A is not usually a good idea (although many here seem to manage it OK). The thing is, if the A goes bad it can make for a very hard work situation. And if his wife works there also, it brings you onto her "radar". Seeing you interact with him, even if you think you're being all business like, might make her suspicious - there really is such a thing as "women's intuition". And discovery in this situation could cause job loss. Really think about possible consequences before going down that road!

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