Update - to I'm confused
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Update - to I'm confused
| Tue, 02-17-2004 - 1:48pm |
Okay - here is my update and thanks for all the support! I called MM at work this am - asked if I could see him for lunch. He could tell something was wrong in my voice - so, I just came out and told him that he really upset me the other day by what he said. He was so taken back that I was upset. He said that he was joking and I should know that. We do get into some petty detailed sexual covos. He apologized and met me for a quick "talk" - he thinks that I over anyalzyed the convo and was surprised I didn't call him yesterday to let him know I was upset. (maybe, I did overthink too long??) Well, here comes my insecurity with our R - now, I am bothered that he might think I'm being too much of a "needy chick" I pressed him if he was upset with me for telling him how I felt and he just kept laughing and saying No. Our talk turned into a quicky in my car (gosh, in broad daylight - Yikes!!) I feel drained emotionally...do you think I am now overanyzlying what he might be thinking? Did I do the right thing? ahhhhhhh....whoever said this would be easy?? I'm sure he's moved on with his day - and hasn't given it a second thought. Why can't I???

But maybe it was a lapse on his part and hopefully won't happen again.
He hurt your feelings. Believe me, MM and I have very explicit convo's too. But although he may say something teasingly to me, I KNOW when he is teasing me, we don't get our wires crossed on things like that.
But he's never said anything that I would misinterpret as a slur on me anyways. He's always been more than considerate in what he says to me. Hope your guy learned a lesson!!
Take care,
Dusty
I have been feeling all afternoon that he is going to be upset with me for even bringing this up..again, I am most likely thinking WAY too much!