Update on My Breaking Heart

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Registered: 12-29-2003
Update on My Breaking Heart
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Mon, 01-19-2004 - 11:43am
I just spoke to my lover today. I can't believe the lame excuse he gave me for us not getting together or calling me telling me why he couldn't make it. Seems a friend of his had a broken pipe and he was helping him with that, to prevent his house from flooding. His reason for not calling was he didn't want to explain it. I am so mad right now. Who does he think he's talking to. I'm not one of his young little g/f to give an excuse like that. Just tell me straight. If he didn't want to get together, it would have been ok. But to tell me crap like this cause he didn't want to explain... Well I told him that he owe me BIG TIME. Lame....it's just lame. Crap like this makes me wonder if it's all worth it.

Watch, the minute he calls me and says lets get together,I'll melt down and can't wait to see him. I say we're all fools.

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Registered: 03-30-2003
Mon, 01-19-2004 - 12:21pm
Neo, leave this MM alone as much as you can (hah, easier said than done!). And in many ways you're right, we're all fools if we expect the ema to be anything more than what it is. It's good to reflect and remember the rules of an ema. It could end without warning at a time we least expect or want it to end. They're relationships that are unique, each one being different. We're all here for support because this is not something you can talk about to anyone else. It seems they're also so addicting, although I will not ever get involved in an ema ever again. I feel like I'm addicted to MM at times (such as right now) and other times I feel like I can take ir or leave it. Hang in there. We're here for support.

Luvin