Update on my life
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| Sat, 01-17-2009 - 11:05am |
Not sure how many of you will remember me, lots new face on the board since I was here last.
I left my marriage back in August after 22 years. Not all because of the AP, but because of how my H had been treating me. We had drifted apart over the years and there was nothing in common for us any more except for our kids. I was miserable all the time and leaning on the verge of a deep depression. Finally one day something snapped and I decided enough was enough, I simply was not going to live like that anymore. And then it started....H was out to make it as hard and painful as he could. I wont even go into half the stuff that he did. I needed to get out and I finally did.
My AP was there for me every step of the way. I drove 1,800 miles to stay with him for a few days to collect my thoughts and feelings then went to stay with my parents for a few weeks to decide what I wanted to do. During that time AP never pushed me to make any decisions or tried to sway me one way or another like H did. (H did not know about AP at all)


Hi HBGA!!
So wonderful to read your update - and I am very happy for you and the progress you have made - and wish you nothing but continued love and happiness.
I know from first hand experience the truth about the bumps in the road - but yes - you are together now - and as long as you work together - the future is bright!!
Hope to see you around here or on the After the Affair support board sometimes - it's a great group over there with many folks in similar situations to yours.
Hugs!!