Update on my mess

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Registered: 05-31-2003
Update on my mess
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Mon, 09-08-2003 - 6:29am
Well after a week or 2 of my ex messing me around saying ' i will let u know or i am busy be sometime this week ect ect' for us to meet up.( I just wanted to see his veiws or talk about the situation with him and what to do about the whole mess.)

He told me it would be this weekend just gone.. i text him yesterday and he send back a rather suspisious reply saying hes busy.. but it was worded differently to i knew strait away he'd handed the phone to his girlfriend so she could fight his battles for him. ( nothing new i must say for him ) she gave me some abuse in her texts and i replied ..which of course being the short fused person i am i couldnt help being unpolite ( but in an adult way lol )

I thought oh god hes told her everything ,but it appears or looks as if she doesnt know all she tryed to make out. he must have told her i keep pestering him and a load of lies like he normally is good at, after a few threats he got the phone back and replied threatening me.. if i didnt stop this **** he would tell everything to the family .. of course i sent one back insisting he must get over himself and that i didnt want him back ..and addition i sent another saying to her there is nothing going on between us blah blah...

I awoke this morning to find F*** O** written across my car in the damp mist that u get on your windows. With that i sent him a text saying if it happens again i will inform the police and that he doesnt intimidate me... nothing so far.

I hope this is the last of it i really do. i dont need the stress not for myself so much but for my unborn baby.

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Registered: 05-31-2003
Mon, 09-08-2003 - 3:59pm
Is it me or does everyone not reply because they think im a physco lol?
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Registered: 07-05-2003
Mon, 09-08-2003 - 5:32pm
sometimes people don't reply cuz they don't remember your story, or what happened last week with you and the OM. Or because they never read your last post.

Like me... I don't know your whole story... Are you m but you wanted to rekindle something with your xH because you felt he is the love of your life? If you thats you, I remember you.. LOL

=)

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Registered: 06-24-2003
Mon, 09-08-2003 - 7:09pm
Hi Debs,

I'm sorry... I'm a little like Lexy on this one... and have been sitting here trying to see if I can get your story straight in my head... and I can't.

I'm presuming that you've had a breakup with your OM and he's making it out to now be all your fault... which of course we know it isn't. But why do you continue to contact him... is the baby his??? if so... then you have every right to contact him. But if not... honey... I'd try as best you can to forget him and get on with your life... for not only you... but you baby as well.

luv and hugs

Sweet

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Registered: 05-31-2003
Tue, 09-09-2003 - 4:14pm
hello and thankyou for repling.. i first posted my story recently under 'have i got the right board '