UPDATED: RULES OF EMAs
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UPDATED: RULES OF EMAs
| Tue, 01-06-2004 - 12:09pm |
1. Deny, deny, deny
2. Accept that the relationship is what it is
3. When the negative outweighs the positive it's time to end it
4. Don't ask questions you aren't prepared to hear the answer to
5. Discretion (be careful, and don't tell a soul)
6. Don't think too much (primarily women)
7. Know yours & your partner's expectations/boundaries
8. Keep your balance
9. Open communication
10. Respect
11. Enjoy one day at a time, and have fun!!!
12. You can?t control what happens, but you can control your reaction to it
2. Accept that the relationship is what it is
3. When the negative outweighs the positive it's time to end it
4. Don't ask questions you aren't prepared to hear the answer to
5. Discretion (be careful, and don't tell a soul)
6. Don't think too much (primarily women)
7. Know yours & your partner's expectations/boundaries
8. Keep your balance
9. Open communication
10. Respect
11. Enjoy one day at a time, and have fun!!!
12. You can?t control what happens, but you can control your reaction to it

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gurl
Have all phone bills emailed to you & pay online(or use calling card).
Keep a stash of "supplies" at work or somewhere you can get to
Delete your calls from cell phone before going in the door
Call the time (or 411) after you've called MM (in case DH pushes redial)
Never come home and head for the shower, dead give away
Keep baby wipes with you at all times
Put car seats back in normal position
Delete cookies and clear history from PC daily
Luvin
Just a question...
Discretion.... yes, but if something should happen to you, and no one knows about MM, who would tell him something happened. I am thinking about telling my sister, just because if something happens to me, he would never know... Remember, have been in A for over a year now, and it would destroy both of us, never to know something happened??
YES, I know you can not tell me what to do, just was wondering what everyone thought?
Mitz
you sound like a very intelligent lady..
someone who's been there...done that.
so glad i fell into this web site...
all of you are a life saver.
btw.....SMS ???? couldnt figure that one out...
also,
how do i reply...to someone...like im doing now??
just go into the discussions and re read??
im new ..sorry..
wish there was an open chat room....
TOW
I feel so young and naive to all of this and
to my situation...
Glad I found u all !!!
Im gonna need all of u BIG TIME
TOW
No, I don't think you should tell your sister for a couple of reasons. 1) Once you've told ONE PERSON something, it's no longer a secret. I'm sure you trust your sister with your life, but who's to say she won't tell the one person in the world she trusts (her husband or whomever), who will tell the one person they trust... 2) By telling her, you're putting her in an awkward position. She may not be directly covering for you, but even by keeping your secret she's having to cover up something. I just wouldn't do that to someone if it can be avoided, especially not for the reason you mentioned. The odds of something happening to either of you are pretty slim, but why not make a pact to never break contact without at least saying goodbye? You can't guarantee he'll follow through with it, but it's better than involving an innocent party. I don't have this issue because I work with MM and he can't get away from me!
Seeburg
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