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Used to post here quite a bit
| Mon, 09-15-2003 - 5:58pm |
Hi,
I used to post here quite a bit under an old name, upsidedown, and I just wanted to stop in and say hi. MM and I decided to be just friends about 6 months ago after several months of a physical relationship and saying "I love you" all the time. Was it hard? OMG yes but we are doing really well. We started a business together, something several people warned me against, we don't have to see each other everyday. We can turn to each other when we need to for support and and ear. Do I still love him, yes but this is what he could give right now (he felt too guilty and had to step back) Funny thing is, he has started calling me sweety the other day again. We agreed that he would never start anything again without being absolutely sure thats what he wanted. I have no idea if he is or not and he knew I was not going to sit and pine away for him but I am fine either way. Neither spouse ever found out so there has not been anything that we had to fix there.
I used to post here quite a bit under an old name, upsidedown, and I just wanted to stop in and say hi. MM and I decided to be just friends about 6 months ago after several months of a physical relationship and saying "I love you" all the time. Was it hard? OMG yes but we are doing really well. We started a business together, something several people warned me against, we don't have to see each other everyday. We can turn to each other when we need to for support and and ear. Do I still love him, yes but this is what he could give right now (he felt too guilty and had to step back) Funny thing is, he has started calling me sweety the other day again. We agreed that he would never start anything again without being absolutely sure thats what he wanted. I have no idea if he is or not and he knew I was not going to sit and pine away for him but I am fine either way. Neither spouse ever found out so there has not been anything that we had to fix there.
I just wanted to say hi and let everyone know that even when an A takes a strange twist, that it will be fine, we are all strong human beings and ther are times when it is ok to be friends.

While it may not be the fairytale ending... it's so nice to hear that all is not lost after an EMA... and given two strong people, they can get through and still remain friends.
I shall keep your story to heart and remember it should I ever need it.
Thankyou for sharing it with us.
luv and hugs
Sweet
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