Vacation Time :(

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Registered: 04-23-2009
Vacation Time :(
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Thu, 11-05-2009 - 1:08pm

In your experiences; when MM and W go on vacation together (not sure if kids are going too I’m assuming not) do you find it brings them closer and that MM “forgets” about you?


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Registered: 06-19-2009
Thu, 11-05-2009 - 3:02pm

It depends on the type of relationship he has with his W.


my AP has never felt more distanced after a family vacation, actually, quite the opposite.


Actually when i've gone away with my H, i've felt myself more disensitized towards AP.


It all depends...

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Registered: 09-07-2009
Fri, 11-06-2009 - 1:37am

The vacations are a fact of life and believe me while fun they are just like any family time with moments of stress.

Just more time for him to lay around and realize you are not there to share the time with him.

So do what I do--look at their vacation time as your time alone to focus on you take a breather and take a good look at how you are doing--and plan your own vacation--that's what i do.

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Registered: 04-04-2009
Fri, 11-06-2009 - 7:56am
My xAP has always been nicer to me when he returned from his vacation
"blah blah blah I discovered that my feelings for you go deeper than I thought"
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Registered: 04-23-2009
Fri, 11-06-2009 - 10:18am

Thanks so much for all your replies.