Van Morrison

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Registered: 06-13-2006
Van Morrison
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Mon, 04-20-2009 - 5:41am

Hey all.


I think I am having a weak moment. I am sitting at wotk, yes it is 0433. It is kind of dead here where I work tonight so I am listening to some Van

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Registered: 04-20-2009
Mon, 04-20-2009 - 1:19pm
Gosh, everything from the Van Morrison to the NC is my story. I posted several Van Morrison songs on my secret myspace that I share with Him (new here and don't know all the terms yet!) and I am in day three of the No Contact try out. I miss him as a lover, but MORE as a friend. So much it hurts to breathe. I don't know how I'm going to end this, but I know that I need to and actually that I want to... kind of. sort of. Arg. confused. So, I came to this site for support to help me stay on the NC plan. Best of luck to you with your's and God Bless.
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Registered: 05-21-2009
Thu, 05-21-2009 - 6:48pm
I've been surfing this sight for 2 hours and between Van Morrison and the NC, this is the post that drew me in.
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Registered: 04-20-2009
Fri, 07-17-2009 - 5:38pm
Thank you for your response of support to my post. I wonder if you're still NC. I'm not. Failed miserably. Although, right now, I am starting to regain strength. I am making a list of 'negatives' so that I can focus on those and not the positives (and, honestly? there are a lot of positives.) Seeing the notice in my long-overlooked secret email inbox that there was a response to my ivillage post was a blessing. I remember how helpful it is to read some of the other's posts-- time now to get inspired and make the right choices this time. Thank you for writing; you might just be the catalyst I needed! Many, many good wishes for your success.
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Registered: 05-21-2009
Sat, 07-18-2009 - 3:20pm

Hi Dee:

Well...I'm almost 3 months NC. It's a roller-coaster. Sometimes I feel good about it and other times, it's a struggle to not text or call. I moved back to 'his' town so the reminders are everywhere. But, I know what I want. I want a real, healthy relationship. As long as I focus on that, I should be fine. There were alot of positives with him too but overall, it will never be what I want.

Stay strong. But if you trip up, you trip up (don't beat yourself up). Just know that you can control your destiny.

love