On the verge

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Registered: 07-27-2009
On the verge
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Mon, 07-27-2009 - 5:39pm

This might be a long post; I'm warning you in advance.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: wandalue62
Mon, 07-27-2009 - 6:58pm
this is just my opinion, but it sounds to me like you just want out of that lousy marriage to a man who lied about previous marriages and acts basically like a child. You don't need to have an A to get out of your marriage. I highly recommend getting out before seeking the company of others. The A is the alternative and it brings showers and floods of pain...
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Registered: 05-02-2004
In reply to: wandalue62
Mon, 07-27-2009 - 7:32pm
I agree with Momtb4, you need a divorce for certain.
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Registered: 11-12-2008
In reply to: wandalue62
Thu, 07-30-2009 - 1:21pm
I too agree with the other posters.A's can be very addictive even if you jump in with eyes wide open They can turn your lives upside down!
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Registered: 05-15-2007
In reply to: wandalue62
Fri, 07-31-2009 - 4:13pm

Yup what the other posters said. Get out now. The fact that your 18 year has no bond with your H should make it easier. Get divorced and then pursue something else.


Good luck!