very serious question

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Registered: 06-08-2007
very serious question
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Thu, 11-13-2008 - 8:27pm
Upon shaving today in my intimate areas I found a strange bump there. I went on line to read on what it could be. I dk if this something I could have had before. I have to be checked out. Should I tell my ap before I get checked out or wait. Tell him I found something strange. My husband has nothing on him, my ap never said anything. If I didn't use a mirror to shave, I would have seen nothing strange.please any help. I won't talk to Ap until tommorrow.

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Registered: 02-09-2008
Thu, 11-13-2008 - 8:34pm

If you're sure it's not an ingrown hair, get yourself to a doctor to be checked out ASAP.

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Thu, 11-13-2008 - 8:42pm
I'm going to try to get myself into planned parent hood tommorrow. If I can't, should I tell my ap anything before I know anything.its got to be in person to.
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Thu, 11-13-2008 - 8:58pm
Its nothing serious I bet. I wouldn't tell AP until after the doctor visit. Course if you plan on having sex with him. Then I might say something. Or avoid having sex with him. Don't panic yet. Good luck. I worry about that kind of stuff to. I hate I had too. But come to find out MM wife was having an affair also. So you never know. One of the pit falls of having an affair.:(
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Thu, 11-13-2008 - 9:15pm
I was thinking possibly the papaloma virus. I dk where it came from.
Ap and I won't be having sex for a while. I was thinking possibly the papaloma virus, I know it can be contagious. From what I read somtimes it doesn't show up for 1 to 3 years in an affected person. My ap is the only one I've slept with and my h. Ap has only slept with me and his wife, my h onlyu me, wife only ap. I hope I'm wrong. Immune system or medication will kill it, he has to know.
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Registered: 02-23-2008
Thu, 11-13-2008 - 9:21pm
i had a bump it was just an ingrown hair ...it happens--esp if u shave..at the time i was married 20 yrs and
no A so take a deep breath and check it out--ok hun?
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Thu, 11-13-2008 - 9:26pm
Not trying to scare you. But how do you know these people haven't slept with anyone else. MM thought his wife was faithful. She wasn't.
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Thu, 11-13-2008 - 9:35pm
I dk about his wife, but my best guess is she hasn't cheated on him. My husband, I know he hasn't. It is guessing, it seems a pretty good one.
Ap and I won't be having sex for a while. I was thinking possibly the papaloma virus, I know it can be contagious. From what I read somtimes it doesn't show up for 1 to 3 years in an affected person. My ap is the only one I've slept with and my h. Ap has only slept with me and his wife, my h onlyu me, wife only ap. I hope I'm wrong. Immune system or medication will kill it, he has to know.
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Registered: 02-09-2008
Fri, 11-14-2008 - 1:59am

Take a deep breath and don't panic. It's probably nothing serious. I have had some nasty bumps appear - ingrown hairs can create some nasty lumps, and the worst ones I've ever had were an allergic reaction to the most common cream used for thrush.

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pisces
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Registered: 10-03-2008
Fri, 11-14-2008 - 6:04am

go to gynecologist asap to find out..don't self medicate..don't have sex with AP or H until you find out what it is and get it treated....((HUGS))


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you said you shave, could merely be a hairbump, unless you don't get them.

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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Fri, 11-14-2008 - 7:19am
i don't get hair bumps. it hurts when i touch it. now that i know it's there i could've irritated it. i have an interview today, and i'm going to try to get to the dr between today and early next week. i dk how long it's been there because i never use a mirror to shave. just yest. why me.
Ap and I won't be having sex for a while. I was thinking possibly the papaloma virus, I know it can be contagious. From what I read somtimes it doesn't show up for 1 to 3 years in an affected person. My ap is the only one I've slept with and my h. Ap has only slept with me and his wife, my h onlyu me, wife only ap. I hope I'm wrong. Immune system or medication will kill it, he has to know.

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