The waiting game......!

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Registered: 05-29-2010
The waiting game......!
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Mon, 07-05-2010 - 3:18pm

Hello all

Haven't posted in a bit because things have been pretty good on my end.
However, the squirrels are starting to run though so I thought it was time for an update!

My AP has been texting me a fair bit more than usual and was back to being flirty in all his messages, very sweet and talking about us. Telling me how much he misses me, that he thinks of me every day, that he needs to see me soon, and lots of dirty texts too. Initially we were going to try to get together this past weekend but his DW wasn't working overnights because of the holiday/long weekend. But that was okay because he suggested a date next week that works for both of us. He said he would figure out where we would go for our rendez-vous. So he was the one initiating all the talking and planning (since I have decided to kind of sit back and go with the flow). This was all last Monday-ish. The next day I thought I had doublebooked myself for the day he suggested and texted him. He said it wasn't a problem and we could do the day before if it was better for me but then I realized that actually the first day was better, I just had to get out of something minor, and that I'd let him know.

This is where the squirrels come in because I haven't heard from him since. I was hoping to hear from him over the weekend but wasn't really expecting too. I really hoped to hear from him today because I know he's back at work, so there are reminders of me everywhere!

I'm wondering if this is a sign of him feeling guilty and pulling back, or just normal downtime until his next communication. I'm hoping he's just waiting to confirm a hotel before he gets in touch with me?

Like so many other posters have said, I just wish that he could throw me a text here and there. That would easy everything! But I'm really focused on not stressing out about the silence and not letting my mind go into overdrive and start thinking about 'what it all means'. I'm just focusing on what he's said and that he always comes back to us.

*Fingers crossed*, in less than a week, I will be spending the night tumbling around with my AP in bed, ridiculously happy!

lucy x

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Registered: 03-29-2010
Mon, 07-05-2010 - 3:46pm
I'll keep my fingers crossed too! I'm sure all is well and he'll get in touch soon, if that helps. :-) I'm here with the xanax ridden squirrel food to chase away the critters! (or rather, put them to sleep!!) :) :)

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Mon, 07-05-2010 - 7:36pm

Fingers crossed here, too!


Are you sure he's back at work today?

anotherseyes

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Tue, 07-06-2010 - 2:16am

That's good news he is making the effort to arrange the meeting.

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Registered: 05-29-2010
Tue, 07-06-2010 - 7:37am
Well I'm happy to say that late last night I hear my text do doo sound and I knew it had to be him (no one else texts me that late!).
He wrote that he can't stop thinking about me and asked if we are still good for the weekend. I said yeah I was, and he was excited and said how great it would be and that he'd let me know when he has found us a hotel.
Yay!
So lesson learned to reign in those squirrels and just wait it out!
This is what I mean by learning constantly throughout the A :)
And jane, I laughed out loud at your comment about rolling around in the bed :) yes please!