Waiting really, really does suck!

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Registered: 12-15-2003
Waiting really, really does suck!
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Tue, 01-06-2009 - 1:23pm

well its been just over a week since i have heard from my main AP....

~k
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Registered: 10-03-2008
Wed, 01-07-2009 - 10:28am

having my AP is a good way for me to stay fit...and a size 4.....for real...i mean in my empty time i'm very, active....plus i like to stay looking good especially for him...he at one time didn't like me so thin (men of color like the big booties,

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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Registered: 04-17-2006
Wed, 01-07-2009 - 11:06am
Kimmie....a size 16 can look just as hot as a size 6...find lingerie in your size that you can enjoy wearing...don't feel bad about your body cause obviously your AP thinks you are all that.
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Registered: 01-07-2009
Wed, 01-07-2009 - 12:01pm

Kimmie,


I am so in agreement with you on this waiting. AP's W found out about me last week and they had the discussion and I keep waiting for him to change his mind. Just waiting for that first text or IM of each day is excrutiating. I will not get to see my AP till April.. We live on opposite sides of the country and it is an impossible situation at this point.


My situation is we are both married and he has already told his W he wants a divorce and H and I are in the process of figuring out if it is worth saving... financially we can't afford to get divorced but emotionally I have already left and am figuring out how to get across the country. I have no kids at home and AP has 1 daughter at home who turned out to be the whistle blower. She caught on that Dad was getting text from someone he didn't want her to know about. So he is outed but still living with W who wants to work on the marriage. He says he doesn't he is done...but is he really??? I hate this waiting to find out each day if I am still the one he wants... Why am I doing this???


Sobad

 


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Registered: 12-15-2003
Wed, 01-07-2009 - 1:20pm

SCU, thank you!!! yeah i really want/need to lose weight for me....

~k
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Registered: 03-28-2008
Wed, 01-07-2009 - 1:31pm
Yes, you should.
love
love
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Registered: 03-28-2008
Wed, 01-07-2009 - 1:36pm
That's pretty thin for a sister.
love
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Registered: 03-28-2008
Wed, 01-07-2009 - 1:40pm

I agree with you Kimmie, size does not determine beauty and VS is for any one who can afford to purchase. Hang in there.

love
love
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Registered: 10-03-2008
Wed, 01-07-2009 - 3:48pm
hips booty and legs that is..and it was me...tygerzize....

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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Registered: 10-03-2008
Wed, 01-07-2009 - 3:50pm
no it's not pretty thin when the bulk of your weight is in the right places...and you have slim waste...i'm all legs and rear...trust me...

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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Registered: 10-03-2008
Wed, 01-07-2009 - 3:52pm
perhaps i should but like i said i get kind of spoiled..and it's his own fault...i just love being around him..ap is very handsome..very chocolate...and very smooth...

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss