Waiting really, really does suck!

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Waiting really, really does suck!
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Tue, 01-06-2009 - 1:23pm

well its been just over a week since i have heard from my main AP....

~k
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Wed, 01-07-2009 - 6:59pm
Wow, I'm sitting here listening to y'all and I kinda wish I was with a brotha! LOL.....I have the small waist and big bootay too, but just wish I can get a bit more "toned"...my "sistah" friends tell me I should be happy with my "thickness" and I've learned to make peace with my body as I got older...but still want to be fit..you know what I mean?
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Thu, 01-08-2009 - 8:20am

well just put it this way..i aint' always been a size 4..that's hard work and dedication..but the bottom is like a 6...but to get my jeans tight..i like a 4..the top is a 4...or xs.....and yes i'm thick...we are built different....get me....

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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Thu, 01-08-2009 - 1:35pm

thank you lovemenow!! thanks for the encouragement, i do need it!!!


Tyger, you are the best!

~k
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Thu, 01-08-2009 - 11:04pm
Girl you don't have to tell me about hard work, I'm in the fitness industry..but try as I might I can only get as small as a six unless I remove my hip bones....I'm happy being a six though....no complaints here.
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Thu, 01-08-2009 - 11:07pm
good thinking to take the weight thing slow. If you try to do it all at once you'll get overhwelmed. I just joined WW again and I am just focusing on stayiing within my points this week, next week i'll worry about getting all the servings of vegetables in that I need.......week after that I'll count how much water i'm drinking etc. I just cant do it all at once..cause then i'll say forget it and go hog wild! Im sure they already wondering what happened to me down at the Dunkin Donuts....
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Registered: 12-31-2008
Fri, 01-09-2009 - 6:13am

God it is SO good to know that men do feel some of the same things that woman feel. I often wondered if my AP missed me like I miss him. He says he does if I stay away a long time.

Thanks for the post.

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Registered: 10-03-2008
Fri, 01-09-2009 - 8:02am
i wish i didn't have such a big ARSE...seriously.....but hey..there is absolutely NUTTIN' i can do about that

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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Registered: 12-15-2003
Fri, 01-09-2009 - 12:57pm

scu, will take things slowly.

~k
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Sat, 01-10-2009 - 10:37am
my mother used to say arse...that's just how she spoke...lol...lol..and yes i got my big arse from her..lol lol lol...

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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Sat, 01-10-2009 - 11:05am

I think that size 16 is great...oh wait, that's because I'm a 16 too! I think I was born a size 16. But as someone else so wisely stated, black men like a thick woman. Shoot even a dog likes meat on it's bone.

I always felt like I got ripped off in the booty department. I mean, my dad is Asian, and they don't have any booties, and my mom was a white girl w/ a flat a**, so I didn't have a shot in H*ll at getting a nice butt.

OMG, the other day my 18 yr. old daughter was trying on a form fitting mini black dress, and unfortunately she has the same affliction....no butt. Anyway, she asks my 6 yr. old if the dress made her look fat (big mistake, never ask a 6 yr. old something you don't really want the answer to.) and he says, and I quote "Well, you look a little fat in the tummy, but the back is nice and flat." I thought I was going to die I was laughing so hard. He was just standing there going "What?"

I just had to share that. I tell ya, out of the mouth of babes......