Want the affair....don't want the affair

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-10-2004
Want the affair....don't want the affair
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Sat, 01-17-2004 - 1:31am
Hi everyone. I have a problem and I just wanted to get it out. I've been living with a great man for almost fifteen years and I've never even THOUGHT of cheating on him....untill recently. For the past year and a half I've been very aware of the fact that my neighbor would like to have an affair with me and lately I've started to become very attracted to this guy. My heart is very torn over this because I love my guy very much but the sex is so STALE! I'm afraid of what I might do but don't know if I have the willpower anymore to walk away. Any advice would be helpful. Thank you for listening.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-15-2003
Sat, 01-17-2004 - 3:37am
If you love your partner and the only problem is a stale sex life, then can be easily fixed. There are pleanty of good books out there on the topic - get yourself some and share them with your parter. Suggest you try different things or plan a surprise erotic weekend away at a nice hotel somewhere.

If your truly love your partner, then remedy the stale sex and forget about the neighbour!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Sat, 01-17-2004 - 9:58am
HI

I agree with Ches completely, don't start down that road, it is better to end your relationship then to start all the sneaking around and lieing, deal with the problems in you bed it will be easier to live with yourself

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