Want to tell him I'm in love with him

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Registered: 10-05-2009
Want to tell him I'm in love with him
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Mon, 10-05-2009 - 11:19am
I'm in an EA with a person I reconnected with from my past.
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Registered: 08-28-2004
Mon, 10-05-2009 - 4:05pm

Hi,


If it were me, I wouldnt tell him at all. I would want him to say it first. It may sound silly but it seems that so often men have so much control in these R's. I would wait also because what if he doesnt say it back. He may love you but then he may feel pressured to either say it back

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Registered: 07-12-2004
Mon, 10-05-2009 - 4:12pm

Well, it's kinda tough if you don't see each other much.

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Registered: 05-17-2003
Mon, 10-05-2009 - 4:41pm

Hi crzycnfsd1,


I felt the same way before I told my AP/BF that I loved him. Did he say it back to me? Not right away, but I have since discovered that it's just the way he is....and it doesn't mean that he doesn't feel it. He even sent me a text telling me that although he has a hard time saying it, he hopes that I know that he does love me,

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Registered: 09-14-2009
Mon, 10-05-2009 - 7:16pm

Hi we actually said it pretty quick. AP said it first. I was so thankful he said it! We say it all the time. SO I would say if you feel it then say it. But it's up to you, and be prepared for him if he doesn't say it back. That can hurt pretty badly....

M

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Registered: 10-05-2009
Mon, 10-05-2009 - 8:46pm
Thanks everyone, I appreciate your replies.
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Registered: 10-17-2008
Tue, 10-06-2009 - 8:14am

I remember the first time