Wanting an affair with, I think...
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Wanting an affair with, I think...
| Tue, 02-24-2004 - 11:22am |
I am married successful working mom who has come to know a similiar type man. There is some type of spark between us but I am unsure of what he thinks about me... My friend says that he may be interested but either chooses not to pursue because of what he could lose or may be unable to pursue. Please don't think I'm vain- but I am considered a very attractive woman. I would never want either one of us to leave our spouses/current lives but I think we could bond and have something together that our neither spouse can give us. There are so many details of course, but how can I tell if there is something worth pursuing? What is his interest is? I am willing to give this a 'go'. I am 40, he 43 so we are no 'kids' at what there is we both have on the line... Help?

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hi vles and welcome to the board.
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
hey, calm down!
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
You have been great- thank you so much for telling me the way it is. I can't stand the sugar-coating that a friend gave me. ("it's not you..it's him"..."his loss", etc..). It is more appreciated than you will EVER know.
you're welcome vles!
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
1.A week agi at a local sporting event, I made no eye- contact with him and pretended not to see him. As he walked behind me, he said Hi and chatted. He could have walked right behind me and said nothing. In his mind, I was oblivious that he was even there. So, agin, not that this means anything but I still believe somehow HE wanted me to notice he was there and HE felt the need to make contact.
2. Last night, he came to another sporting event that I attended (home town varsity hockey game). Anyhow- he planted himself right in front of where I was standing so I had no choice but to notice him. He could have gone and stood by all the other dads; but did not. So, I took the oppty and walked up and we chatted for about 5 mins. Game was over by that time.
Can this be construed as anything positive??? I know it does not give open door to A, but I feel there IS something?????
hi vles and of course, it means something!
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
hi vles, yes honey i remember my other posts to you.
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
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