Wanting an affair with, I think...

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Registered: 02-22-2004
Wanting an affair with, I think...
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Tue, 02-24-2004 - 11:22am
I am married successful working mom who has come to know a similiar type man. There is some type of spark between us but I am unsure of what he thinks about me... My friend says that he may be interested but either chooses not to pursue because of what he could lose or may be unable to pursue. Please don't think I'm vain- but I am considered a very attractive woman. I would never want either one of us to leave our spouses/current lives but I think we could bond and have something together that our neither spouse can give us. There are so many details of course, but how can I tell if there is something worth pursuing? What is his interest is? I am willing to give this a 'go'. I am 40, he 43 so we are no 'kids' at what there is we both have on the line... Help?

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Registered: 02-22-2004
Mon, 03-01-2004 - 5:24pm
C, I'll let the 7th come and go. Just like what I need to do with my fantasy about this OM. You're right, this should be the best part if it were reciprocated. And of course since it's not; well, then....It's time for me to put this behind me... stick my emotions back down inside of me and move on. I just hope that I have not harmed the friendly relationship we already have. I would like to think not.

Time will tell...

And yes, I too, check my email too often for the same reasons as you.

I have come away from this with tears and a hurt soul. However, talking this out was the best thing I ever did. No one said life was fair.

We'll get through all of this C. You and I have the strength. Stay beautiful and courageous...

V.

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