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| Sun, 01-11-2009 - 9:45am |
My AP and i were having a talk and i asked what he loved most about me, apart from the emotional connection etc.He ended up admiring my physical assets like hair,hands,my curves,lips, legs,hips ( lol! they are huge! ),he said it all but didnt include my eyes ! I asked him and he got thinking and said yes( very reluctantly ) they are nice( urgh!!) I've heard that eyes say it all but i havent experienced that,ever.I dont squint,lol! my eyes are in proper place( lol!) and i do have some hair in my eyebrows ,though very thin eyelashes( i put on heavy mascara).Yeah, they are not the big ,expressive kinda but still.
I am not looking for advice.just wanted to get it out of my system.
I have seen my AP's STBX W's photo and she is gorgeous! much thinner than i am and she is 6 years older than me,urgh! which makes me question as to why he chose me?I am not as pretty as she is.Or is it not about how you look?
Edited 1/11/2009 9:52 am ET by lovingdoll2008

Stop comparing yourself to the STBXW.....Obviously this man finds you attractive, curves and all...and he is probably in love with YOU and who you are....don't make your relationship so superficial that you have to sit and ask why he chose you because you're not thin....You two have an emotional connection and that is pretty darn sexy...
I am older than AP's wife and she is pretty from what I can tell with one picture that I saw. I know that his attraction to me is more than physical, so I don't sit and wonder why a man with a gorgeous wife at home cheats....Many men that cheat have attractive wives.