Since we had it out, big changes...

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Since we had it out, big changes...
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Thu, 08-28-2003 - 9:14am
As most of you read last week I had a melt down about my A and the miscommunication and disrespect that was overwhelming our relationship...WELL...we had it out last Wednesday and it appears that something has significantly changed in him.

He actually asked me to meet him Monday night just to give me a quick hug and kiss...we literally had 5 minutes for a quick chat and a couple hugs and kisses but we both had to get home. BUT HE ACTUALLY ASKED TO SEE ME!!!!

Then he called me last night again and asked me to come meet him if I felt up to it - Ive been fighting a summer cold thanks the air conditioning...I went to meet him and we talked for an hour or so - no sex - just great conversation. He held me and kept saying things like "I dont like it when my lil angel doesnt feel good" and brushing my hair back off my face. He was just so sweet and gentle last night. He has been in sucha great mood lately to and not only did he ask to see me but he was expressive in comparison to normal. He told me how much my 4 o'clock messages mean to him especially when he doesnt get to talk to me. I think the boy loves me! Matter of fact I know he does! Lucky me...

Anyway, Im trying hard not to get used to all this but something in me truly believes that we turned a new leaf last week and perhaps with more open lines of communication we can find a deeper understanding for one another - he's clearly trying to meet my needs - now that he knows what they are...

Just wanted to share!

Liberal

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Registered: 07-20-2003
Thu, 08-28-2003 - 9:40am
Liberal, I'm glad everything has seemed to work out for you. I remembered reading your posts with interest because it seems like lately I've been going through some of the same things. I don't know how to deal with his not calling at times without seeming overly-needy if you know what I mean. Sounds like you have figured out a solution tho, good luck.

PR

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Registered: 04-24-2003
Thu, 08-28-2003 - 12:47pm
How wonderful!!!!! Thanks for sharing. I am glad that things are working out with you and OM. I hope things stay that way for you!!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 08-29-2003 - 12:28pm
congrats liberal, and keep those lines of communication open. telling/asking for what you need might be a little painful, but in the long run, it puts your needs and hopefully, his, out in the open and both of you are on the same page in the relationship.

glad to see you're both happy! enjoy it.

gurl