We were supposed to meet up...
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We were supposed to meet up...
| Fri, 06-05-2009 - 3:19am |
And it fell through.
AP and I were supposed to meet in a couple weeks. However, I suddenly had a bad feeling about it and decided it wasn't a good idea to follow through. He's very hurt and to be honest, so am I. However, I've ignored this feeling of something bad going to happen in the past and you know what? Something always DID happen. I refuse to ignore it anymore! I explained to him that perhaps we need to slow down a little bit and get to know each other better. He says he understands, but we are both terribly disappointed.
We aren't sure when we'll have another chance to meet. It could take as long as a year! I worry if we can maintain a relationship for an entire year with basically no physical contact. Is it possible?
He isn't a

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He doesn't pressure me at all. He never says "So, when will you end it all? When will we be together in a normal relationship?" he never says any of it. He never pressures me to leave or to make any other rash decision. We've discussed things and we both agree that we have to plan and plan carefully if this will work long term. We can not fly by the seat of our pants in this situation. I see what you're saying about "waiting" and I agree it does give off a negative vibe -- sorta speak.
He's been very good at accepting that this isn't a traditional relationship (even a traditional long distance one) and he understands his "place" in my life (if that makes sense). He is very respectful of my life.
I want to thank you for responding to my message. It is wonderful to hear things from the other side (you're the single guy).
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