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| Sun, 12-21-2003 - 6:47pm |
I really do not like the weekends anymore !! MM spends them with his family and I do not hear from him for the entire weekend. As we get deeper and deeper into this A the weekends become longer and longer. We have 2 weeks of NC coming up which I am sad about but will get thru b/c I will be with friends and have made him a card a day telling him in each card how much I love him and I know that will help him get thru them.
I am not sure how much of this I can tell him ( not b/c I dont want to be honest with him but b/c I dont want to push and look needy ). Any thoughts ?
I am not sure how much of this I can tell him ( not b/c I dont want to be honest with him but b/c I dont want to push and look needy ). Any thoughts ?
thanks for listening

If finances allow, take classes in something you enjoy. Catch up on friendships you've allowed to lapse. Go to a movie or a museum or something. Make this YOUR time for YOU. That helped me a lot when our NC times hit me hardest.
Good luck!
Lucky
We had a very longg conversation on friday. It started with lots of emails, then a IM, then ended with a hour and 1/2 phone conversaton. He said he would call sat or sun & I laughed and said, "It would be good for a change to hear from him on a weekend."
But!! He didn't call. He'll be back to work tomorrow (monday)so we'll pick up where we left off, :).
He too will be off for 2 weeks & I'm dreading it. I haven't mention this upcoming NC, but we have had talks about other ones. I've told him before to not let so many days pass w/o hearing from him. Sometimes he hears, sometimes he doesn't. I'm undecided yet, to mention this one or noT, but I think I probabily will because I think it's good to be open with each other.
You should tell him about it. You would feel better, :)...
Take care,
Dusty