Weird behavior after SEX

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Registered: 08-18-2008
Weird behavior after SEX
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Fri, 08-29-2008 - 10:52am

Ok guys


so i have been seeing a guy ( a cop) for about a month.


The thing that gets me is his behavior sometimes...


We usually talk most weekdays and have lunch once a week....I have a great time talking with him


and getting to know him...the thing is when we get together at night or steal away for something more intimate. He will kiss me and hold me until we have done or finished and then he does not seem to want to show affection after we are done.


Give it a day or so and he acts affectionate again...saying how he longs to hold me,carress me and kiss me or how he craves me....then if we get

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Registered: 08-19-2008
Fri, 08-29-2008 - 11:41am
If he said he will take care of the problem, give him time. You've discussed the issue with him and if he still doesn't do what you want the next time you're together, then why stay and keep gettin' bugged? if he meant to run then I guess there won't be a next time. You need to open up good communication with this guy and don't settle for his vague answers.
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Registered: 02-23-2004
Fri, 08-29-2008 - 12:08pm

Most of our encounters ended with "ok, thanks, see ya...oh and what just happened never happened."

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Registered: 08-18-2008
Fri, 08-29-2008 - 12:29pm

it just seems that he is an emotional person......


and for him to not feel anything after being with me hurts, i tried to tell myself to not have feelings about him but the more I see and talk to him the more I think I have fallen....


he keeps asking me "how i feel" or "how are u doin" the day after we are together....I mean I dont get it...how you can show emotion before and not after.


maybe I am over analyzing everything. I guess i shouldnt call him?? Should I wait for him to contact me?