Well, it's all out on the table!

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Well, it's all out on the table!
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Fri, 05-07-2004 - 4:19pm
My H and I had a huge argument a couple of nights ago. He for the lack of a better term got in my space so I called 911. I filed a report that night and again yesterday. He left the house that night and he stayed with a friend. I called my Attorney after the incident and she filed a restraining order the following morning. I just left the courthouse. The temporary restraining order is in place. Anyway, he is out of the house and I had him served with the D papers this morning. He is not happy but has agreed to abide by my wishes. He says all he wants is to fix what he has ignored in our marriage and what has brought me to do this. I do believe him! Anyway, just thought I'd update you kids on what's happening. It's been a couple of emotional days but who knows maybe this will help us to get back to where we were 10 years ago. Ok, I realize I have to do my part! It's only fair, right! Keep in mind H doesn't know about MM and he never will. I have already put MM on the back burner but I think it's only right to totally stop the A now. Anyway, that's the plan! I hope you all are doing GREAT! Oh and please don’t worry about me! I’m great; I haven't in this kind of control of my destiny in a long time! Did that make sense? Dance Naked:) NMR
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Fri, 05-07-2004 - 4:34pm
hey it makes perfect sense nmr! sometimes it takes a "kick in the head" to get your (or his) attention and this was it, for both of you.

go at it girl and try to work it out. but if he puts his hands on you again, use your highest heels on his back!!

take good care of yourself and never let go of your control and destiny!!

love and hugs,

life

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Fri, 05-07-2004 - 7:24pm
Nomo, I am glad you are OK. Everything you said made a lot of sense. ((((Nomo)))))))
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Fri, 05-07-2004 - 11:31pm
Alright lady...I know it's the weekend so we won't be IMing, but you had better be at your pc first thing Monday morning! I want details. What's up with the about face? What's up with the sudden change of heart? You are, of course, entitled to change your mind, but I want to know why. Be looking out for me, or email if you get the chance. (((Hugs))) and know that I'm thinking of you.

~Nutso
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Sun, 05-09-2004 - 4:40pm
Hey girlfriend! Wow!!! I know you are okay, but I want to tell you I am thinking of you... I know you are strong and it does sound as though you are hopeful for your M. I know you want it to work....Maybe this was his eye opener! Gosh darn men... why do you have to use a two-by-four sometimes...?

Ending your affair? We need to talk....! We do need to catch up! Maybe I will catch you and "Notso" online this week....

Hugs!

Forty...