Well it's finally happening

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Registered: 07-27-2003
Well it's finally happening
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Wed, 01-07-2004 - 2:21pm
Charlotte

Edited 1/7/2004 2:21:54 PM ET by charlotte1203


Edited 6/6/2004 10:08 am ET ET by charlotte1203

 

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 01-07-2004 - 2:36pm
Charlotte dear, opening up is good and getting scared is normal too. Running away too, take it from me who has done that before. If your MM is anything like mine - he probably been testing his waters so far - wait till it all hits you full force. You will be scared and you wil deny and say things that you didn't mean to because its a fight within yourself as much as him. Hey, nobody said it was easy, it defintely a rollercoaster ride. Just don't overthink - take it as slowly as you can - and don't deny yourself anything.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 01-07-2004 - 3:21pm
ha, be careful what you wish for, huh! charlotte, i do agree with french. but you have to tread carefully here, don't overthink it yet and cover yourself, for yourself!!

MM has now realized what you mean to him and is now changing the rules of your A. that's pretty darn scary. you need to figure out how much of MM you want and how much the rules can change and you still be comfortable with the A.

think about it,

gurl

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Registered: 07-27-2003
Wed, 01-07-2004 - 4:32pm


Charlotte




Edited 6/6/2004 10:08 am ET ET by charlotte1203