Well we didn't get together last night -
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| Tue, 02-03-2004 - 1:33pm |
on another note: he insists that it is only sexual for him, no emotions. We've been friends for 4 years and have always talked a lot. We went out Friday night and had a great time: talking, laughing, joking with no sex at all - just a good night kiss. We go to lunch together about 3 times a week and sometimes don't even kiss then - just hang out and enjoy each other's company. I told him if it was just about sex then he should stop trying to be my friend ;-) I find myself falling for him though and I am wondering if I should stop before it gets out of hand - he has said he'd be happy if it lasted for "years and years". He's not married, but engaged. He jokingly calls me his girlfriend but has a problem saying anything "sweet" to me since we aren't a "couple" - his words - this is all so new to me...I've been with my DH for 9 years and never dreamed I'd be in this situation.
Just needed to vent a little since I can't talk to anyone else about this, which by the way is KILLING me!!
T's Secret

hi ts secret.
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
T's Secret
I'm also in a "sex only" relationship. But wow, when we're together, its awesome!!
He is very addicting. I think he is addicted to me too (after 2 years). Have a wonderful night!!
Dusty
we had a great time - I just wish we could have had longer to spend together, it's always so rushed. but I'm not complaining!! he is wonderful and I tell him so even though he won't say it to me I can see it in his eyes.
today I am having lunch with a close friend today and I am SO afraid I am going to tell her - I know she would never say anything to anyone and she doesn't even know my dh so she couldn't tell him but I know how risky it is....and OM would kill me if I told - they know each other since we used to all work together.
*sigh*
T's Secret
hey ts secret -- honey, keep your A to yourself or at least don't tell this woman friend.
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board