Well...this is what I did today.....

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Well...this is what I did today.....
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Thu, 11-13-2003 - 4:28pm
....today I left MM a cryptic note that could be taken one way or the other and when he gets it I will demand an answer on how he really feels. To those who don't know me I am smack dab in the middle of maybe being a game to a co-worker or the object of his true desires LOL.

As for other news I had a very nice lunch with, I'll call him MM#2, and I know how he feels about me. He knows that we will only be friends, even though he wants more any time any place. It did make the other MM jealous. He gave me the 20 questions on mine and MM#2's R.

Then here is my other drama for today, while MM#2 and I were having our lunch, I noticed a man @ the table down the isle kept staring. When this man got up to leave as he walks by he sits down beside MM#2 and is obviously one of his and his W's friends. Even though MM#2 and I are only friends and were only having a friendly lunch, I wanted to disappear. If MM#2's W finds out she will be livid. She already is very insecure about him talking to anyone of the opposite sex due to the fact she had an affair before. I really don't care if she is mad, we weren't doing anything wrong , just eating our lunch.

I also want to say that I really appreciate all of your thoughts and comments. I have been to other boards and they weren't really nice to me. I don't think I offended anyone, they are just not receptive to newbies I guess.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Thu, 11-13-2003 - 4:53pm
OMG Blue! It sounds like you have some serious DRAMA going on. I wish you luck! Sorry, I can't chat more but I'm leaving for the day. Just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you. NMR
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Registered: 11-12-2003
Thu, 11-13-2003 - 5:01pm
Thanks, I will let you know the results of his reaction to his note.



TTYL,

Blue
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 11-14-2003 - 12:16pm
hey blue -- girl, you got 'em lined up don't you!! seems to me you're the free agent and the MM#1 and MM#2 can both follow you and try to catch you, if they can!!

and so what, you were innocently having lunch with MM#2 when his friend stops by. whatever. people always jump to the worst conclusions in this type of situation, but all you had to do was smile and be polite when MM#2 introduced you.

let us know what happened with the note to MM#1. keep in touch!

gurl

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Fri, 11-14-2003 - 12:48pm
...you know what ? I had attached the note to an invoice I needed him to code for me and when I got here this morning, there was the invoice, so I know he saw the note. He was already gone out to his jobs when I got here.

Well I am sitting here working and I hear him in the next office talking w/ a job coordinator, so he HAD to walk past my office and know I was here. I had to make several copies of invoices so I go out to the copier and when he gets ready to leave we are in the "public eye". I know he was staring from the other office while I was @ the copier, and he then walks up behind me and we say in a low voice our "good mornings". He touches me around the waist and walks off. As he is walking off he looks back and I give a very sly smile.

Couple hours later I go to get a drink. My money is in my car and where I park is right beside his office trailer. He has parked behind my car and is nowhere in sight. I get my money, go to the breakroom and he and another employee are leaving and almost run into me. They both say hello and go on. I go to get my drink and realise I didn't get enough money....go back to car (he is still blocking me) get more money (it's freezing cold and I am not enjoying this at all) and head back to the breakroom. He is walking out AGAIN and I say to him something about the cold , he tells me to wear more clothes. LOL!

Thus far, we have not had a chance to talk about the note. He is either just plain stupid or is scared and can't back up his flirting. I think maybe he may be waiting for the right time, I don't know. All I can say is .....MEN !

On another note I had this dream about MM#2 last night and I kissed him. I don't know why I dreamed this, I have never even kissed him in real life.

Blue