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| Sat, 01-17-2009 - 12:29pm |
well since last Thursday, AP#1 has been calling me every day just about.
| Sat, 01-17-2009 - 12:29pm |
well since last Thursday, AP#1 has been calling me every day just about.
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Honestly Tori - I do think she's sick - in the clinical term.
It is IMPOSSIBLE to be HAPPILY married and have an affair...no way now how. I do not care how you spin it. You just validated what Tell said...that's good . You were on the Fridget end.
What world do you reside in where you could possibly think that a marriage in which one of the partners is being sexually promiscuous with multiple partners could even remotely be described as "great"? And no, I don't think one could be described as marriage material if they are not capable of keeping their pants on outside of the relationship to the extent that she does. And to talk about it the way she does, as if she were discussing buying a roast at the store. Quite frankly, I'm surprised that anyone on this board would find her references to loving the thought of him sitting next to his wife and thinking about her, how she loves the power of that, as something cool to say. That just crosses a line of decency that most of the women on here do not. THAT was rude and not funny at all.
I'm sorry, you may not see it, but I do believe she has some huge issues that are simmering underneath all the sexual bravado. You're right, I probably shouldn't have called her a sick ticket. It's just a phrase. But I hear what you're saying. What I don't understand is it's 2009. AIDS and other sexual diseases have been around for quite some time. Kids in high school learn about this stuff. So I find it extremely irresponsible and reckless for a grown woman to be sleeping around like that and exposing her husband to that risk. If she wants to mess around with every Tom, Dick and Harry that comes around, so be it. But I still stand by my statement that she probably shouldn't be married then. Marriage is about committing to ONE person. That's what it is! Why be married if you're not capable of living up to the committment? Why do it? Why live a lie? I read on another board a term which really applies here. She's playing her husband for a chump. If it were a guy people were talking about here, people would think he was a real scumbag. If not, read some of the posts where the AP has another AP. See what people say. How is this woman any different, I ask?
What you said!!!!!!!
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