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Whaddaya Think About This???
| Mon, 08-11-2003 - 8:15pm |
MM phoned this morning to say that he didn't want me to think he was avoiding me, & wanted me to know that I'm on his mind. (He last phoned Sunday @ 2AM.) He had to sneak out to call because W is home this week...it's their stinkin' 4-year anniversary. After he said, "I didn't want you to think I was avoiding you & I wanted you to know I'm thinking about you," I SAID: "I understand. You're busy playing husband this week."
He was SO offended. He said I didn't have to be cynical. Said that it was cruel. I asked, "Why? It's true. You are somebody's husband." His reply suggested that I insinuated he isn't a real husband. I didn't mean it that way, I was just being honest. While he was trying to explain why the statement hurt, I could tell he was crying. He's been really emotional during the past several days...maybe because he's been home w/W???
Do y'all think there was anything wrong with my comment? If you're married & somebody calls you a husband/wife, what's the problem????
Edited 8/11/2003 8:17:41 PM ET by kira_gaston

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Even though we did last week, he wants to sit down & talk again. I agreed to Thursday...if he doesn't take his belongings this time I'll discard them.
Liberal
Pardon me for being direct, but if he were trying very hard to be a good husband, he wouldn't be over here getting hard. He's not pleasing me; he hasn't in a month of this 2 month A. So I guess he's failing in this EMA, too.
After his tears & explanation of why my statement bothered him, he tried to "zing" me back by asking, "How would you feel if I said you were playing mistress?" (He's told me more times than I can count that I'm NOT his mistress.) I told him it only upsets me because that's what I am...his mistress. I later told him again that I'm no longer willing to play that role...which is why we're talking on Thursday.
"Love stinks. Yeah, yeah."
soooo funny.
gurl
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