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what am i doing!
| Tue, 01-13-2004 - 6:17pm |
i have met a man,we have spent months sitting talking.then 3 weeks before he left the area (he was working in my town)we some how ended up kissing from there to a full on affair. i had just left my husband and he lives with a long term partner.any way to cut a long story short he left and in my heart i put it down to a fling and never expected to hear from him again, was i wrong every day since he left we have been in touch.and 3 times he has managed to visit,things have got complicated, his girlfreind is pregnant 5 months now, when he told me i thought this is it the end but no we talk even more, he tells me he is unhappy with her but until baby is born he feels he must stay, i know he has feelings for me and i do for him but where is all this leading, should i stop contact and let him get on with his life or does anyone think we might have a chance together sometime.i dont know what to do,i dontthink he would be in constant contact with me if he didnt care, would he. we stay 300 miles apart.

I suggest that if you intend to go head and remain in contact with this man that you put him on a time table, require that he leave her completely by a specific date after the baby is born, if he does not agree or backs away from what he agreed to then look out for your self and dump him , be warned once he holds his child he may have a complete change of heart about his G/F and that relationship or may want to stay to be with the baby.
First order of busines it to protect your heart, your single and can if you want meet other men that are not in a commited relationship to date or Marry.
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