What am I willing to do ????
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What am I willing to do ????
| Thu, 05-28-2009 - 9:56am |
Good morning,
You all must be tire of me posting my daily dish with AP but this is the only place I have to talk about my AP.

I would be less hesitant on this if maybe marriage talk had come first, or he'd introduced you to family already... But holding out on everything until you've made such a huge commitment sounds a little hinky... Trust me, my cousin just went through all of that. He had to mostly turn his back on his family (we've seen him exactly three times since he converted well over a year ago), and after spending the holidays traveling to visit her family - all over the country - he realized he didn't want to raise his children without Christmas and Easter and all of the other Christian holidays... So after all that time and money and emotional input, he called off the whole thing... He's still converted, and they're still dating as far as I know but he's now having to come to terms with the full effects of his decision...
I guess what I was trying to say is, conversion isn't something to rush into. And even you really do love your AP (I'm pretty new here so I haven't been following your story) you're going to have to decide if you love him enough to make the sacrifices he's asking for...
~We are what we are at heart and that cannot change~