What is AP thinking? how dare he?!

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Registered: 08-30-2009
What is AP thinking? how dare he?!
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Thu, 07-29-2010 - 8:22pm

Ok so my AP never calls me our communication is very limited. He lives 1000+ miles away and is extra careful about getting caught.
Anyway he called me yesterday eve. since is on a business trip and not at home. We were talking, making small talk etc., all of a sudden this is how the conversation went: AP "where are you at?" Me "At home." AP "where is your H?" Me "He is taking a shower." AP "Oh no no! what do you mean? your husband is home?! No no! what are yo doing?" Me "yes, but he is taking a shower and I am in one of the back bedrooms" AP "you mean your husband is home, and here you are talking to your lover?"

Needless to say I was shocked. I was speechless, as if he was judging me, then again how dare he! after all he is a MM too!
Anyway me not wanting to blow this into a huge fight (we've never fought), I said to him that it was nice of him to call but that we better say goodbye now. I said I do not want the drama, also there are a lot of things that I could say to you right now but I will not.

AP responds "Oh no, I mean I just don't understand you there talking to me and your husband is home!" I replied "Let me take care of things at MY END you take care of things at your end"

After this exchange he changed the subject, and we talked for a few more minutes. Him saying goodbye while describing an act he would like to perform on me...really? come on after you scolded me? (I thought this & did not say it to him).

Ladies, last night I could hardly sleep because of his comments, and of course the tone of his voice when he was saying those comments (very stern). he said he will call me tonight, since he flies back home on Friday and we will go back to NC for a while,
I was thinking of letting him have it today, I mean my two cents about the way he spoke to me yesterday.
should I?

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Registered: 06-15-2010
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 8:43pm
Sounds like he is just trying to be careful
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Registered: 02-06-2010
Fri, 07-30-2010 - 2:32am
seriously? are you cycling right now? what time of the month is this for you? he was probably just being scarcastic and teasing you a bit. the scandal of the H at home in the shower while the promiscuous wife is in the other room on the phone with her LOVah - oh dear!! i would have laughed, honestly. he sounds cute & practical. relax.
when one does not love too much, one does not love enough --blaise pascal
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Registered: 08-30-2009
Sat, 07-31-2010 - 3:31pm

Well mariemarie I do not appreciate the nature of your post.
I just dont get it.

To bumblebee, thanks for your support. I spoke to AP about his comment and he explained that he was only speaking out of concern of me getting caught, so you were right. Thanks!