What are some of the little things...
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| Thu, 05-06-2004 - 8:52am |
In my case, I have no problem with PDAs (Public Displays of Affection), as long as there's no sexual touching or rude behaviour. But innocent caressing or kissing, (even making out if no one's watching), I'm completely Ok with, and even like it.
My DH doesn't do that at all anymore. Maybe just a tap on the lips and that's it. He's always worried about who will see. I tell him that we're married, we're in love, who cares about who sees? He's gotten a little uptight about that and I don't like it.
My OM is just like me. He doesn't mind if people see that we care for each other. We could be standing at the line of a fast food restaurant and he'll kiss my cheek, or my neck. He'll caress my hair, he'll hug me, no matter who's watching. He loves for me to do it as well.
Last week we were at a store doing a bit of shopping, and I approached him and kissed him on the lips. He said, "Please, not in public", and then he just grabbed me and started making out with me. I still giggle when I think about it =) I love it when he surprises me like that.

deedee
It's funny you said that about your H's and MM's eyes, it's the same with my DH and OM, except they both have brown eyes. DH's eyes are small, evil-looking too! LOL, and OM's eyes are big and dreamy. He melts me when he looks at me, like he can see into my soul, you know? I always blush when he looks at me like that... I feel so exposed LOL
She also is affectionate in public and I love that. Just holding hands and cuddling and kissing here and there is so nice. And she gives me little gifts all the time and everyone of them is thoughtful and personal. She and I not only have the type of deep, meaningful connection that I have sought my entire life, but she also does all the little things I adore.
elf
I also love that my MM is affectionate when we're NOT in bed. Like many of you, my H, sweet as he is, doesn't really like to hold hands (never has in the 19 years we've been together) or kiss me in public. So usually when he touches me, I know it's because he wants sex and I find that pretty annoying. My MM strokes my hair, touches my hand, etc. whenever the chance arises. It's wonderful to know that he wants to have that connection with me all the time, not just when he's feeling "randy."
Edited 5/7/2004 12:40 am ET ET by h12j22r71
Soleil
We are big fans of Seinfeld, so he always downloads the episodes one by one and we watch them together. He takes me in his arms while we are watching it. And the last wonderful little thing about him, is that before we go to sleep at night (we go on romantic getaways every 3-4 weeks), he always takes me in his arms for at least 10 minutes to discuss our deepst dreams and fantasies! No matter how embaressing or wacky they are! These ten minutes mean the world to me!