What are you all hoping/wishing for ....

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Registered: 01-27-2008
What are you all hoping/wishing for ....
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Mon, 12-29-2008 - 4:06am

Hi well ive been lurking and occasionally posting here for the last 18 months or so. Ive read many ups and downs of others Affairs, nice to read the success stories too. Regardless of my opinion

"be yourself, disguise not, for your a truly unique beautiful being"


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Registered: 12-18-2008
Mon, 12-29-2008 - 10:43am

Things are slowly fizzling with AP#1. I think the guilts are getting the better of him. #2 is going strong but travels alot so I don't get many times with him :(. No ILU with either, it's all FWB and I hope to keep it that way for 09

jana

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Registered: 10-03-2008
Mon, 12-29-2008 - 10:56am
what i hope for my A is that it will continue to grow as it has for the past year plus.....let the chips fall where they may....i will continue to love and be in love....

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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Registered: 09-17-2008
Mon, 12-29-2008 - 11:16am

Hi SS,


I am expecting the same thing I have expected for the past 9 years of my A. MM and I are best friends, and, if the physical ended tomorrow, the emotional and spiritual would still be here. I do not see a moment of my life without him in it, as, I am sure that he sees things the same way.


I wish you, also, the very best of the new year, as well as everybody else here.


mom

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Registered: 05-17-2003
Mon, 12-29-2008 - 1:51pm

I guess what I'm hoping for my A in 2009 is for it to keep growing the way it has been. I just posted about what a wonderful holiday I had and it was all due to AP/BF and how he's shared himself with me over Christmas...I never want it to end.

He has been amazing :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-28-2008
Mon, 12-29-2008 - 2:27pm
For 2009 I am hoping to end it with AP and strengthen my M.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-27-2008
Mon, 12-29-2008 - 2:32pm

I wish you lots of luck hun. Just keep focused on that happy family.


take care


SS

"be yourself, disguise not, for your a truly unique beautiful being"


"be yourself, disguise not, for your a truly unique beautiful being"


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Registered: 12-11-2008
Mon, 12-29-2008 - 6:40pm
In all honesty, if I could have one thing, it would be a fulfilling marriage.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-24-2008
Tue, 12-30-2008 - 5:25am

I'm on the fence w/ this one. In one way I wish my AP would keep his self imposed deadline of March and finally move out, and then again there is just so many games I sometimes want to leave him alone. But I think as along as we have a child together I will always love him, and can be persuaded to take him back.

OK, Now I know what I want.....A FREAKIN' BACKBONE!!

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Registered: 12-12-2008
Wed, 12-31-2008 - 2:12pm

Well my question is what are your expectations for your A in 2009. Do you wish it to continue as it is, do you expect to be together, or do you no longer forsee yourself in A land with you AP.


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Registered: 01-10-2008
Wed, 12-31-2008 - 3:22pm
AP and I are both hoping to be together, but first, at least one of us, preferably both of us,

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