What to do...?

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Registered: 01-24-2004
What to do...?
Sat, 05-08-2004 - 1:37pm
~~* FALLING IN LOVE WAS NOT PART OF THE PLAN *~~

Summary of my situation: I've been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs. and we have been slowly drifting apart the last year. OM has been with girlfriend for 3yrs. "A" started in 12/2003.

I was driving over my friend's house tonight and was listening to that new song "Burn" by Usher when it dawned on me: I am in love with OM! That's right, I LOVE OM!! I want to be with him and only him!

Last week, he made a comment out of the blue saying he would be single in a month or so.

How do I go about expressing my feelings of loving him and wanting to be with him and only him without scaring or pushing him away? If I do talk to him and he doesn't want to leave his girlfriend, do you think it would be in his and my own best interest to end the A?